SPANKING PROSPECTING
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Spanking prospecting means taking a systematic approach to finding spanking partners .
( If you have not already done so , read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray . )
For success in this field it is most important to develop a POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE towards spanking and the more you know about it the easier it is to introduce it to others . Be as natural as you can be in your approach , remember that SPANKING IS FUN and that it has a lot of positive things associated with it . ( Why not make your own list ? ) .
There are three main ways to find your partner ( this is a spanking partner that you are seeking , not necessarily a partner for life ) . This advice is intended for both men and women ( who , by the way , we believe should be more active in the search for spanking partners ) .
You can try personal contact , introduce the subject into conversation , if you do this light-heartedly you can always retreat .
The first objective is to get a meaningful conversation started , everyone likes to talk about themselves , their work , ambitions etc . Become a good listener . Tell a spanking story or a joke and see who laughs . It is a bit like fishing , isn't it ? Why not make a list of potential partners ?
Do not write off prospects because of appearance , this seems not to be a major factor , although anyone who dresses to show off their buttocks or moves or holds themselves in a way to draw attention to their bottom should be towards the top of your prospect list .
Do not be put off by an initial hostile attitude , quite often this is just a defence to be overcome . On the other hand , people may be transfixed by the sight of a spanking , keep your eyes and ears open !
Take likely prospects to a movie with a spanking scene or better still rent a video . ( See SPANKINGS IN MOVIES AND TELEVISION . ) A video Spanking for Adults Only ( click here and go about 2/3 's of the way down the page , on the left , and click on the VIDEOS link ) which may help to broach the subject is available from : Dr. Susan Block .
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A light smack on the bottom at the right time can do wonders . ( See " NOTHING NATURAL " on the BOOKS page . ) Many " sound " spankings have started out this way the recipient making no attempt to move away . If it goes wrong , we take no responsibility if you end up getting a free ride in a police car ! This method works well for both men and women . ( A recent example of this approach working is on the SPANKOZ JOURNAL page . Failures also happen , today a 25 year old lady ran into the back of a car , she had the necessary element of contrition in her attitude and it was only a few minutes from home , but if your mind is on other worldly matters - nothing will happen . )
Check your volume and click here for how to ask for a spanking .
CLICK HERE to see a successful conclusion ( will take about 7 minutes ) .
Another conversation starter is to have a piece of SPANKING ART on subtle display
or allow a spanking magazine , implement etc to be " found ".
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( If you are a man who wants to be spanked , it is best to hold off until you have found a partner and then gently introduce the subject . Try using the " payback " approach . )
ALWAYS KEEP AN OPEN MIND ABOUT SPANKING POSSIBILITIES - EITHER GIVING OR RECEIVING .
You can advertise or answer personal advertisements ( PERSONALS ) . The most important things are honesty in saying what you are looking for ( this includes discussing the method and LEVEL of spanking play ) . Look after your safety , particularly on the first meeting . ( CLICK HERE for some safety tips from Match.com . ) If you are serious rent a post office box ( or use a e-mail address such as Spankoz or others provide ) . Use your clothing , see SPANKING T SHIRTS AND PANTS , SPANKING , DECALS , PINS AND BADGES and SPANKING TATTOOS .
The old BIRTHDAY SPANKING ploy may work .
Ladies Days at the races can be fruitful .
Attending spanking social functions is another avenue .
There are also the conventional methods of flowers and chocolates to have your intended see things your way . ( These work well on Anniversaries , Birthdays and Valentines Day , Mother's Day ( or as an aid to becoming a mom ) . There is also Holy Innocents Day for the more religious . )
Should these not work try a moderate amount of alcohol ( Remember the Shakespearian warning " Wine provoketh the desire but lessons the performance . " )
Finally , are you in shape ? A nice firm body , especially buttocks attracts interest , see our SPANKING EXERCISES PAGE .
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( A role play site with many Female Brats , a few " Tops " and a some
" Switches " . NOTE :
This is an excellent way of " prospecting " . As mentioned
elsewhere , females are very " verbal " in their approach to spanking
and cyber play is a good way of meeting , just as is participating in chat rooms
etc . )
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