
DANGEROUS TERMS
IN SPANKING

( This page was a
reproduced article on our original site , unfortunately it was deleted . We will
now progressively rewrite it here , as time permits . )
SAFE
CALL PROFORMA Page
( for use in face to face meetings ) .
Dangerous terms are those
which can occur in both written and verbal communications when arranging a
spanking etc . These terms are warnings and should lift your level of awareness
when used .
Dangerous terms can be
your first hint of trouble . Other means of communication , such as appearance
and deportment ( body language ) , are more important than the use of these
terms to your safety . Always go with your " gut " feelings in
spanking situations . Several links are at the bottom of this page to pages
about physical etc safety .
GENERAL WARNING SIGNS
- Failure to provide direct answers to direct
questions .
- Use
of obsessive , overly religious or moral language .
- Physical
appearance is significantly different from his or her online
persona .
- Last
minute changes to arranged meetings .
- Excessive
nervousness .
- Can
not look you in the eye .
DANGEROUS WORDS AND
PHRASES
- I don't want you to tell anyone else about me .
- Do not believe what other people say about me .
- Yes , what they told you was true , but I have changed .
- You should only trust what I tell you and not listen to anyone else .
- Rape
- Hit
- Beat
- Burn
- Scar
- Cut
- Break
- Hate
- Slut
- Cunt
- Bitch
- Whore
- Choke
- Strangle
- Blood
- Whip ( depending on circumstances )
- Torture
- Pass out
Advice
for women on avoiding dangerous men .
( A small part of an article at fondlyandfirmly.com )
The Signs :
-
Does he get jealous easily ?
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Does he come across controlling
and demanding ?
-
How does he act when he is
angry and upset ?
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Is he sensitive to other's
feelings and yours ?
-
How does he treat his friends,
family, kids and his mother ?
-
What was his relationship with
his mother like as a child ?
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Was there abuse of any kind in
his life ?
-
Let him talk about past
girlfriends and wives . This will tell you a lot .
...........................FROM
: fondlyandfirmly.com
SAFE
CALL PROFORMA Page
( for use in face to face meetings ) .
TEN
TIPS FOR SAFE ONLINE DATING
PLAYING
AND STAYING SAFE
Offline/Online
BDSM Safety
Ambrosio's
BDSM Site
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