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Many " large " people engage in spanking . Unfortunately , this group is generally ignored by the spanking community . Basically size does not matter in spanking , but it may affect the choice of position and the implement used . The main requirement is to have sufficient room to use an implement , if required , and the ability to reach all areas of the bottom , especially the lower parts of the cheeks . Be careful when using implements which may break the skin , especially canes . The layer of fat underlaying the skin is compressed during impact more than is the case with a person of average proportion . The result is that the skin is stretched and may be cut or bruised . Blows need to penetrate through to the underlying muscles . The long term feeling after a spanking comes from this area . For this reason the use of a longer than normal warm up and a heavy implement , such as a wooden paddle is recommended .
Dear Mistress Matisse,
I am a long time reader of yours
and I have questions I hope you can answer.
1. Do overweight women get into
the public BDSM scene, or are many of them like me and too ashamed of their
bodies to play in public? ...............
1. There are lots of bigger women in
the kink scene. The BDSM community, as a group, does not hold women to the
Hollywood standards of beauty. That's partly because we value someone's
personality and kink skills, and we see beauty in things other people don't.
It's also got something to do with there usually being more men than women
at kink events, so all types of unconventionally beautiful women find
admirers. Many large women have told me that the BDSM community was the
first place where they ever felt desirable and sought after, and they are
now wildly popular at the kink events they attend.
........................ thestranger.com
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